You are my Rubix Cube!!!

White, Red, Blue, Orange, Green & Yellow.

There's so much to your persona.

You are so jumbled up!!

Sometimes, you trouble me.

Sometimes, you irritate me.

How difficult you can be.

How dominating you can be.

Not letting anyone get a hang on you.

No matter how many times I try throwing you out of the window or hiding you inside my wardrobe,I end up picking you up back again. 

Wondering how addictive you can be, I sit quietly & try to figure you out once again.

I do realize, that I am actually aware of your pattern, yet somehow my heart stops myself from solving it.

Because once I'm done, you will be  perfect from all angles.

And as it is said,beauty is never perfect!!

You are my RUBIX CUBE!!,

Incomplete.

Mysterious.

Sometimes, you trouble me.

Sometimes, you irritate me.

FOREVER.... an overrated myth!!!

THE GOOD NEWS IS NOTHING LASTS FOREVER...
THE BAD NEWS IS NOTHING LASTS FOREVER!!

Don't we all crave for a happily ever after? We all want the future (no matter how uncertain it may be) to be perfect,right isn't it?

Our surroundings,almost all the movies, songs or even that fairy-tale book from your childhood, the climax usually ends up with happily ever after. Since childhood our brain had been trained to, that in the end everything falls into place.

But what about the practicality?

Ya I know I know..I should be positive, we get what we think etc etc. But honestly I don't believe in forever. If things really lasted forever you would still have been best friend with that girl/boy you had when you were just a kid.People change, they might not be the same person as they were when you met them.Yesterday whom you called your bae or your baby  might be the person whom you really hate today, and the person whom you least expected to be friends with might become one of the most crucial part in your life.

Emotions feelings do change, its just human.

OK, first thing first.there's nothing wrong with cravings for the forever, for a happy ending. Of-course if you are in love with something you would want that thing to be with you forever,
In this lust of keeping that thing with you forever you start making compromises and adjustments.And in this process you forget about one thing, the present!!

The future is unpredictable, all the planning, compromises & adjustments can take a twisted turn by a single life changing event.One misunderstanding with your love, one mistake in your career, one fight with your best friend, one miscommunication between your friends can change everything you had.

Honestly I'm not saying that nobody will have a happily ever after, I pray and hope people get what they love, what they want, but in this lust of forever don't forget to enjoy the moment that we have today.

Love unconditionally
Be vulnerable sometime.
Tell that person you love them.
Dont keep grudges
Smile
Have a get together,
Get wet in the rain,
Kiss hard.
Apologise.
Hug that person.
Confess.

Just seize the moment darling!!

Enjoy the present,
Enjoy the moment, don't let it go.

The compromises and adjustments won't lead you to a happy future.And if your forever does not turn out the way you had planned then maybe somewhere you were trying to hold on to something that never belonged to you

Life will one day definitely take you to that perfect forever, till then just go with the flow!!!

Maybe next time…

Maybe next time we will meet again, in a whole new way..

Next time I will bring those charming eyes,
Or maybe next time I would want that good luck mole on my face…

Next time I will be talking to you about my emotions. About my fondness,
Or maybe next time I will steal that heart from your sleeves to mine…

Next time we won’t hit each other,
Or maybe next time we will hit on each other…

Next time I will bring my luck with me,
Or maybe next time it will be your cupid that will hit me…

Next time you wont be the robin to my ted,
Or maybe next time I will be the lily to your marshall…


Maybe next time…

That Little Girl who made everyone Smile!!

When our world is facing depravity and experiencing the feeling of cynicism,today I experienced a very noble act of honesty...

After I left from office in the evening I boarded a 7:03pm Panvel local from Govandi station,the train was really overcrowded so I stood at the side near the door.At Vashi station the train got even more crowded,with the crowd a hawker also jumped in.She was a little girl,she must be around 10 yrs old.Honestly I got pissed off a little as the train was already so crowded and who wants to buy ginger and corn in such situation.

I ignored and started looking outside the door.

After few seconds I heard a lady telling the little girl to pick something up from the train floor,the girl was not ready she was nodding her head and telling "what will I do with it" but  the lady continued to coax her "Pick it up and keep it with you" "Pick it up or someone will stamp on it" but the girl kept nodding no. One of her ginger corn bag must have fallen down!, I thought.

But to my surprise there was a 2rs coin fallen down and the little girl was not ready to pick it up.After some more coaxing from the lady the girl agreed and she picked up the coin and handed to the lady."Keep it" said the lady.."NO" replied the girl "I cant its not mine" the entire crowd went silent and started looking at the little girl.

I noticed we all were smiling!!!

"Such honesty!!" said the girl standing beside me. Yes even I was stunned a little.

It might really  be a very small incident but it really really touched my heart...seriously where this world is engraved with selfishness and greed such incident make you keep faith in this not so bad world.

I really wanted to click a picture of this girl and ask her name but I could not,she got down with the crowd at Nerul station,but yes I do and will remember her and if I ever get a chance of meeting this little girl once again I am definitely gonna ask her name.

'That little girl who made everyone smile!!'

Micro-Tales!

A lot can be said even if you write a little.Power of words would I say.

Recently took part in Micro-Tale competition,though I didn't win,had an amazing time writing these...

1-Letting go her feeling for him,was not easy...

    Neither was getting married to another!!

    #feelings

2-Met at physics classes..

    Came out with a chemistry!

    #chemistry

3-She just dont used to write..

   She used to let her feelings bleed!!

    #bleed

4-"We love each other" they said

    "This is unacceptable" people said

     Little did the girls knew,

     loving someone could also be a crime!!

     #crime

5-For him she was his best friend

    For her he was Jon Snow

    "he knew nothing!"

    #best-friend

6-She had forgotten to handle happiness..

    As sorrow had stayed in her hand for too long!

    #sorrow

F.R.I.E.N.D.S

Not having much interest for foreign series (as I had wrong impressions about the westerners)...when I was forced by friends and cousins to see it at-least once...little did I  know that this sitcom would become my life...my hobby...my stress-buster...!!

F.R.I.E.N.D.S. 

watch it once,watch it twice..watch it nth number of times,it will tickle you and make you emotional every time you watch it.

Here are some of the things which this amazing show taught me...

1. Don't be AFRAID,take that STEP!!

Rachel Green,the young rich spoilt brat,who ran away from her own wedding,although betrothed to the rich dentist.The fact that she was not in love with him,scared her.Now thats a big step.Even though showered with gifts,the pamper and money from her rich dad,taking this step was really brave!!

And bravo as soon as she stepped out of her comfort zone and started living by her own in this scary new world Rachel never gave up,and yes she did become an independent woman.

Its really important to come out of that comfort zone,to know your fears.Listen to your heart and work towards it.Life is too short to crib and cry. Don,t be scared,take that step!!

2. MOO point!!

Remember Joey's MOO POINT?!!
Yes sometimes we take life a little too seriously..we are in constant fear what others will think be it our career...,our relationship,..our freedom...for all we should remember is the others opinion is just a moo point,You know its like a cow's opinion..it just doesn't matter it just moo...

3.We all have a GUNTHER in our life!!

We all know Gunther had a crush on Rachel,or you can say that he had consistent love for her.I do believe that we all have Gunther in our life,who secretly admires us or is in love with us,you just have to look around.Sometimes we are too busy  to notice Gunther of our life!

4.Marrying your best friend is awesome!!

And as the saying goes,the best relationship blossoms from friendship!!Chandler & Monica were my favorite couple on the show..they showed us  the perks of marrying your best friend..

-they knew when and how to make each other laugh..

-they supported each other's dream..

-they showed us that you dont need to change yourself for each other..
-their relationship was fun..
-they were a team..

-they proved nothing is more beautiful then to have your bestie beside you during your rough times..
-they had respect for each other...

-they made us believe in magic..

-they proved relationships are worth it..even if its not easy..

and last but not the least...they showed us if u marry the right person..eventually everything will fall into place!!

5.A boy and a girl can be BEST FRIENDS FOREVER!!

And then who said that all best friends ends up getting married to each other??
Joey and Phoebe,they were my favorite pair of friends.They shared the best chemistry,and a very special bond,they always had each other's back.The relationship which I would called true friendship.Many people will confuse this as LOVE,I would say yes they loved each other,but not in that sense.Some of us also wanted them to end up together..but naah!! some relationships are best as it is,,,not all friends are meant to be together..

 

Joey and Phoebe for me they were more then friends but less then lovers!!

6.The BROMANTIC bond!!

Every Joey needs Chandler,and every Chandler needs Joey..I guess this bromance was enjoyed by all.
Well according to me only Chandler had the ability to tolerate Joey's stupidity..hehehe!!

They knew how to have fun,,,

they also had their disagreements...

but well no matter what they were always there for each other..

10.Be yourself!!

In the beginning I found phoebe very weird...but slowly I realized that she was indeed the one who was comfortable in her own skin.She was honest,,straightforward and unknowingly she gave us much to learn from her..

be it her pick up lines..

               

honesty...

how to back fire people when its necessary.

she knew people will judge,so she stood to be herself and let the people do judging..

All I can say is well done princess Consuela Banana Hammock!!!

11.Relationships are more important then your dream!!

I never really understood the relationship between Ross and Rachel,So I wont be talking about it much,But I was really overwhelmed when Rachel decided to get off the plane!!
Yes some relationships are indeed important then anything else.Well I really wonder if Ross and Rachel lived happily ever after..or did they go on yet another break!!

12.Friends are forever!!

And last but not the least,great friends are forever!! No matter what happens they will always be there for you!!

And to my cute stupid friends out there..
.I'LL BE THERE FOR YOU...CAUSE YOU'RE THERE FOR ME TOO!!

Proudly Single!!!

So here I am...coffee by my side..my favorite music playing behind me..and m all ready  to vomit out all my frustration on people commenting for me being still single....duh uh I mean PROUDLY SINGLE!!!

OK so I have been on the next marriage to do list by most of my married and precisely even single friends...be it suggestions..horror stories (will let u know ahead that why do i call it horror)..or be it them playing a cupid for me...I have got it all...OK OK I agree and have not a single doubt on,that their comments are fully well-intentional..and is for my better..those are just a way to encourage me...but trust me people we single people feel the exact opposite..opposite of encouraged..!!

So here i am listing down on the list of things which shouldn't be said to single people on this earth!!!


1) THEY: So why are u still single??_ _ _ _ .
     ME (in my mind):Well let me thing..uhh mmm mmm well maybe people have found out that
       I  am from  Jupiter :p :p

First of all how am I suppose to answer that..I mean how on this holy earth will I answer that... do I ever ask how come are you still married???

 ..OK I know its kind a compliment but I am tired of answering this(valid answer still not found)...but the problem is that this question refers to me as  that I shouldn't be single because I have already  crossed the so called society declared marriage age..it also makes me feel that I owe some kind of justification to them for me being single..
Trust me guys single-hood has its ups and downs and so does the married life..but isn't it better to live a happy single life then being in a wrong relationship?? (NOTE: this sentence in no way means that I don't want to get married)...



2)THEY:Tum bahut choosy ho.. u know you should learn to adjust.
    ME (in my mind):OK I promise I will marry the next guy I meet..pakka promise!!!

                                       

So is being choosy that bad?? (to all my single friend u should ignore such thing and say yes to being choosy!!)..The person whom I will spend my entire life..don't I have the right to choose him wisely..don't I have a personal choice..."this question refers to me as you are getting old please get married"..or lets simply say it refers to me as "the top u have been looking for is out of stock..please buy these loose pajamas they were not even sold  in stock clearance sale!!! kindly adjust ma'am"...OK,I know I know I am over exaggerating it...but this is what it feels..so before you blame someone for being choosy please note it,its their life and  its their right!!!



3)THEY:Have you tried shaadi.com or any other matrimonial site??
    ME (in my mind):No but I have tried scuba diving even that was quite adventurous!!

To be very clear..these marriage beuros are nothing but a money making business..and uploading a profile not only makes me feel useless but it also makes me feel unwanted..unwanted by family.and by people whom I  love..its feels like m shouting out "please take me m getting old..please please!!no one wants me here" huh!! I dont beleive in the funda where I pay a certain..wait..i mean a big amount to buy a soul-mate..so next time if u r suggesting me or any other single person to open an account on such marriage websites think before doing  it.



4)THEY:Staying alone is not easy..u need someone..especially in your older age!!
    ME (in my mind):Ok so marriage is investment plan..u get retirement benefits..

This is no less then a horror story..I mean scaring someone that they might end up dying alone is a very negative way to convince someone to get married...this one is a total thumbs down from me..!!

5)THEY:You should be positive..things happen when u least expect it!!
    ME(in my mind):Alright but I am  never on expectation mode..or should I put myself on                   expectation mode     what are expectations??..what kind of expectations??..well wait u have             confused me a little...

So this comment is partly true..I  know many people who have met unexpectedly with each other..but this comment makes me believe that I shouldn't expect anything or maybe I am doing something wrong by expecting!!

6)THEY (especially the oldie):Read this prayer and see how it helps in searching for your right          partner
   ME(in my mind):What??????...please please also give me a prayer  which will help me to get          unlimited supply of money!!!

First of all I am not an atheist..I totally believe in god and I have full faith in my religion.But please for god sake lets not mix our stupidity into it.God always has his own plans which is for our betterment,I will never ever pray only for the sake of my selfishness..i would rather focus on being a good human being and I am  sure this will be more rewarding.


7)THEY:I wish even i was single like you...you are so lucky!!
   ME(in my mind):Hey wait weren't you happily married and weren't you convincing me to tie the       knot as soon as possible...you cheat..were you trying to make my life miserable..I hate you             huh!!!

I agree that whoever says this lines does not literally mean it..these lines come up by married people when it comes to freedom!!...yes I am free free to do whatever I want..I pay my own bills..eat whatever I want to ..go out whenever I want to...and even can sleep and wake up whenever I want..my schedule is in my own hand...yes I love my life..but being single has its own challenges  too..Being married also has it positive points you can distribute your bills..there is always someone who can help you with your decisions..and it gives you  freedom to start your own family.So like its said every coin has its two side both married and single life has its own ups and downs.So please married ones stop appreciating single-hood...and single people stop appreciating married life..be real face the truth!!

So all I want to say is why do we always end up in talking about marriage..is marriage everything..?? Does no one really appreciate happiness..??

I would rather focus on my happiness and focus on the beauty of life...things which are meant to happen will happen no matter what...!!

Cheers to single hood!!!