I BELIEVE..:)

LIFE...it all about,love,joy,sorrow,pain,heartbreaks,laughter...etc etc.I just love my life...though its not perfect at alll...I always keep reminding myself that this is it,this is the only one life you have got and you have to make it to the fullest,which usually makes me fall in trouble..lol....but thts life is'nt it?? whats the use of it if we don't do whatever we want to...I have fallen in love...confessed it..had my heart broken,seen some of my friends turning into enemies...,have become close to people who were once just faces in the crowd...,have loved to the fullest,seen my close friends crying and stood beside them helplessly...,and worst of all have seen love...love someone else...but as i said thats life...each day is a lesson filled with negative and positive vibes...every incident have moulded me into a new soul,sadness had made me yell WHY ME??...happiness have brought tears in my eyes., I have faced the unexpected...and have missed some expected things,but yet these things never stops me and they never will

I still chase my dreams,pray wholeheartedly,trust my friends,expect the unexpected to happen and most importantly I BELIEVE........

atithi devo bhava....

ATITHI DEVO BHAVA....guest is god  ,well we must have learnt this from childhood and ya i do believe in following it...BUT...it seems my dad has taken these words too seriously.....resulting number of guests visiting our residence.The problem doesn't start here,its the surprise of  varieties we get is really irritating (as we hardly know who comes as they are related to dad's business) ...but some experiences are worth describing too..
Here is one of them....recently my dad's friend visited our residence..well he was invited by my dad just few hrs ago from his arrival...it all happened this way..the friend called my dad to inquire about  the address of a wedding venue,near by our residence,which he was going to attend with his entire family...so with seriousness of the words ATITHI DEVO BHAVA.....my dad invited them so that they can have dinner with us..WTF...will the dinner not be served at the wedding.????...but uh my dad...he forced them to come along...poor mom had to cook the lavish dinner...with fish as the friends family loved eating fish...who would'nt if its served FREE!!...the food was cooked and but we could'nt eat...well how can we go ahead without the GUESTS..so what if the rats along with other animals started dancing inside our tummy...At around 1:00am yes 1:00am the guests arrived...who politely said that they cant have food as they  had already eaten their  dinner at the wedding...keeping respect for my dad's invitation they even arrived....OH GOD...so they only drank the cold drinks and moved..HUSH THANK GOD ITS OVER....!!!!...so the lavish fish was saved for us...and we ate dinner at around 1:45am...the time where even the rats in our tummy along with  his friends had gone to sleep....zzzZZZzzz
Its good to be good...but sometimes being too good takes you nowhere...my dad really needs to know this...
I hope he understands this atleast once in his lifetime....

The kite runner.

The kite runner....by Khaled Hosseini.As,a true lover of gulf stories(i still don't know why??),I always wanted this particular book on my shelf.Though I didn't get the opportunity to read it,I ended up watching its movie.And WoW,what a masterpiece it was.Marc Foster the director,has done an awesome job,I always preferred reading book before watching its movie,but my experiment to watch this flick first was not a waste.
Now coming to the movie,the story unfolds about friendship.loyalty,fear and relationships.Friendship between master and servant.loyalty between servant and master,fear of facing the truth and relation between parent and child.The story revolves around the very much happy Afghanistan,its culture and tradition,before the Russians entered into the picture.How people had to fled away from their very own country.And then journey of bleeding Afghanistan had no end from Russians to now Talibans.

I would really like everyone to watch this movie,and enjoy it to the fullest.

Finding peace in nature....

Nature,a precious gift from God,mostly ignored in our busy scheduled life
Ever had a date with nature???
Have you ever planted a flower???

If the answer is NO you surely do that soon,trust me there is no other way to find peace then to get close with nature..The other day I fell sick and as I am at home,I took the opportunity to spent a little time with nature.Then what was next,I along with my dad,planted almost eight plants,adding more beauty in my terrace garden,Now every afternoon,I sit there,chanting prayers,talking to plants or just sitting  with my eyes closed listening to the sounds of  leaves and birds,and what a magical feeling it is.
But sadly it wont last for a long time,after few dayyss I will be back to work.But I will try to do this every weekend to connect myself with nature and find true peace.

The Charlie Schulz Philosophy

Life is a journey,with loads of lesson to learn along.Today I came across a very thoughtful mail,really beautiful,one shouldn't miss

The following is the philosophy of Charles Schulz, the creator of the 'Peanuts' comic strip.

You don't have to actually answer the questions.

Just read it straight through, and you'll get the point.

1. Name the five wealthiest people in the world.

2. Name the last five Heisman trophy winners.

3. Name the las t five winners of the Miss America pageant.

4. Name ten people who have won the Nobel or Pulitzer Prize.

5. Name the last half dozen Academy Award winners for best actor and actress.

6. Name the last decade's worth of World Series winners.


How did you do?

The point is , none of us remember the headliners of yesterday.

These are no second-rate achievers.

They are the best in their fields.

But the applause dies..

Awards tarnish.  

Achievements are forgotten.

Accolades and certificates are buried with their owners.

Here's another quiz. See how you do on this one:

1. List a few teachers who aided your journey through school.

2. Name three friends who have helped you through a difficult time.

3. Name five people who have taught you something worthwhile.

4. Think of a few people who have made you feel appreciated and special.!

5. Think of five people you enjoy spending time with.  

Easier?

The lesson:  

The people who make a difference in your life are not the ones with the most credentials..    

the most money...or  the most awards.  

They simply are  the ones who care the most.

Yes love = Realization

What is love?????........Love is emotion,its devotion and its affection.Somewhere sometimes ago I had read that love is realization,and always wondered what will I realize when I will fall in love?????

And YES sometime back I don't remember when I realized that love is indeed a realization,it made me realize what emotion is and the feeling of true devotion.Love makes everything beautiful,it makes you feel to live a thousand years more.....and trust me when you are totally drowned in the pool....you also realize that love is not alone it comes with package of tears,tears and more tears....then what???,you have scars on your heart,but it doesn't really matter,YES it doesn't,because you will be thankful atleast for being realized (remember love is realization),it will never fade,it can never,but it will make you more strong.

Today I can confidently say yes I am strong,and I am really thankful to love for it,no matter I didn't win it..... for it was love which made me strong,and it will be love which will make me even more stronger,it will give the courage to move on and also the faith to still hope.....it's all matter of realization.....for I had not fallen in love I would have never known that somewhere behind an emotional girl there's even a stronger one.....

JUAREZ.......shocking and sadly true...!!!!

Last week I watched a wonderful movie named BORDERTOWN....and trust me the movie was shocking,disturbing and fearful......and above all it was worth watching.......

                                                           

The movie is about a place called Juarez,a border city across the Rio Grande from the U.S city of El-Paso,Texas.

The movie focused on  the hundreds of women working in American-owned factories who have been brutally raped and murdered in the city (Juarez) gripped by fear,the victims are generally reported missing,later finding their bodies in a vacant lot or buried in the desert area........The attacks have been covered up by the local authorities, and still continue today,what will you find is the corrupt system propagated by unfair labor system,with no police protection at all.....

After watching the movie I couldn't wait to tell everyone about the movie and the truth that it unfolds.

The sad part is this killing still takes place in Juarez.....I really wish every person should watch this movie and if nothing atleast pray to God,for what's happening.

For women is the precious gift from God,she's the mother that sustains the very breath of humanity...how can a man even think of killing her.....