Friday, August 7, 2015

F.R.I.E.N.D.S

Not having much interest for foreign series (as I had wrong impressions about the westerners)...when I was forced by friends and cousins to see it at-least once...little did I  know that this sitcom would become my life...my hobby...my stress-buster...!!

F.R.I.E.N.D.S. 

watch it once,watch it twice..watch it nth number of times,it will tickle you and make you emotional every time you watch it.

Here are some of the things which this amazing show taught me...

1. Don't be AFRAID,take that STEP!!

Rachel Green,the young rich spoilt brat,who ran away from her own wedding,although betrothed to the rich dentist.The fact that she was not in love with him,scared her.Now thats a big step.Even though showered with gifts,the pamper and money from her rich dad,taking this step was really brave!!
And bravo as soon as she stepped out of her comfort zone and started living by her own in this scary new world Rachel never gave up,and yes she did become an independent woman.

Its really important to come out of that comfort zone,to know your fears.Listen to your heart and work towards it.Life is too short to crib and cry. Don,t be scared,take that step!!





2. MOO point!!

Remember Joey's MOO POINT?!!
Yes sometimes we take life a little too seriously..we are in constant fear what others will think be it our career...,our relationship,..our freedom...for all we should remember is the others opinion is just a moo point,You know its like a cow's opinion..it just doesn't matter it just moo...





3.We all have a GUNTHER in our life!!

We all know Gunther had a crush on Rachel,or you can say that he had consistent love for her.I do believe that we all have Gunther in our life,who secretly admires us or is in love with us,you just have to look around.Sometimes we are too busy  to notice Gunther of our life!





4.Marrying your best friend is awesome!!

And as the saying goes,the best relationship blossoms from friendship!!Chandler & Monica were my favorite couple on the show..they showed us  the perks of marrying your best friend..
-they knew when and how to make each other laugh..
-they supported each other's dream..
-they showed us that you dont need to change yourself for each other..
-their relationship was fun..
-they were a team..


-they proved nothing is more beautiful then to have your bestie beside you during your rough times..
-they had respect for each other...
-they made us believe in magic..
-they proved relationships are worth it..even if its not easy..

and last but not the least...they showed us if u marry the right person..eventually everything will fall into place!!


5.A boy and a girl can be BEST FRIENDS FOREVER!!

And then who said that all best friends ends up getting married to each other??
Joey and Phoebe,they were my favorite pair of friends.They shared the best chemistry,and a very special bond,they always had each other's back.The relationship which I would called true friendship.Many people will confuse this as LOVE,I would say yes they loved each other,but not in that sense.Some of us also wanted them to end up together..but naah!! some relationships are best as it is,,,not all friends are meant to be together..
 
Joey and Phoebe for me they were more then friends but less then lovers!!




6.The BROMANTIC bond!!


Every Joey needs Chandler,and every Chandler needs Joey..I guess this bromance was enjoyed by all.
Well according to me only Chandler had the ability to tolerate Joey's stupidity..hehehe!!
They knew how to have fun,,,
they also had their disagreements...

but well no matter what they were always there for each other..





10.Be yourself!!

In the beginning I found phoebe very weird...but slowly I realized that she was indeed the one who was comfortable in her own skin.She was honest,,straightforward and unknowingly she gave us much to learn from her..
be it her pick up lines..

               
honesty...

how to back fire people when its necessary.

she knew people will judge,so she stood to be herself and let the people do judging..


All I can say is well done princess Consuela Banana Hammock!!!


11.Relationships are more important then your dream!!

I never really understood the relationship between Ross and Rachel,So I wont be talking about it much,But I was really overwhelmed when Rachel decided to get off the plane!!
Yes some relationships are indeed important then anything else.Well I really wonder if Ross and Rachel lived happily ever after..or did they go on yet another break!!



12.Friends are forever!!

And last but not the least,great friends are forever!! No matter what happens they will always be there for you!!




And to my cute stupid friends out there..
.I'LL BE THERE FOR YOU...CAUSE YOU'RE THERE FOR ME TOO!!